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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I are attached for 1 month plus and he is getting more touchy as in physical contact. We normally ended our outings in romantic outdoor places where he started kissing me and touching me. To be honest, I kinda enjoyed it at first but it was until yesterday that we went for a movie and he started feeling my legs. I was wearing a very short mini skirt and I thought the initial touching was fine but he literally placed his hands under my bag and just kept touching between my thighs. It was so deep and I put his hands out and place it on top of my bag. Thereafter, he continues and place his hands back to feel my thighs again.I don't know how to react then...I wonder does he really likes me for who I am or is he just interested in getting physical with me? On a lighter note, he is a guy who don't know how to sweet talk but shows his concerns through his actions like fetching me from place to place and buying things for my family. So, I am just wondering if it is ok for a guy to behave this way at the start of a relationship or is he getting too physical?Actually, he did asked me if he is too "sticky" and I told him he is a bit... So, I am just wondering if such physical behaviour should continue or should I stop it to make this relationship a purer one for us? As I realised that a very physical relationship is not very healthy.
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 You need to be up front with him. If you dont want to get physical then tell him that and if he likes and respects you at all then he will wait until ur ready.
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