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writes: About a month ago me and a close friend (female) were were dicussing a close friend (male) of mine that we had spoken to online earlier that night, who lives overseas. She mocked me at first, saying things like "You love him, he loves you!" and when I told her that it was never gonna happen she said "Okay, okay, but seriously you can tell he loves you!" That's when I realised from the day I met him I had always loved him. I guess we had always told each other we loved each other a lot but we were only friends. I got pretty emotional around then because it was so strange for me and cried myself to sleep a lot. About a week later when I got the courage to let him know he was so understanding and lovely, I had always believed he was the kindest person in the world. A few days later he told me he loved me too and I got much happier. More weeks passed by and I left to go to the Seaside with some good friends of mine (female). I left him e-mails saying how much I would miss him and left early one morning. I had a great time but I couldn't help thinking of him a lot. When I arrived back 4 days later he seemed distant and our conversations seemed to die out. I just thought he was busy or something. But whenever it seemed to be Me, Him and my best friend (female) talked together, I was sorta excluded and they had all these little jokes together and he treated her like a goddess. I mean yes he was still nice to me but in comparision he treated me like some kid that's proudly made something rubbish out of toilet roll tubes and pretended he liked it. I looked over all the things I've seen him say to her and it seems that he either lied or changed his mind about what he told me before I left to the beach. I got pretty upset about it and yet again start crying myself to sleep at night, but I didn't say anything to him. We had a little arguement but it literally was for a pathetic reason and we made it up within a day, and again I was pretty sad about it. After all the misery I went through I finally just went a bit nuts and ended up yelling at my parents who threatened to take me out of school and send me to a Public school, which would be terrible because I find it hard to make friends, also I don't really like Public Education due to problems it could cause in the future. I know it's like the whole it's-their-choice thing, but he hasn't said anything and he still acts like he cares which is sweet of him but I'd rather have the truth, because, though it will break me it'll be better than finding out the hard way. Anyway I beg this is approved because I need serious help because I truly do love him. Thank you.signed Suspicious Sweetheart
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): Wow.
Why are Mom and Dad so ready to send you away? Sounds like punishment and that they are not willing or capable of listening to your needs?
It sounds like you are a very lonely, unheard, misunderstood young woman.
Have you suffered depression before? Have you had a perscription?
You don't make friends easily because you feel like you don't really fit in or belong and this is a common theme amongst unsure, sensitive, lonely teens.
Have you ever seen a movie titled "Prozac Nation"?
Have you thought to get some individual therapy? If you feel you have no one to talk to or turn to then a therapist would be a good start for you.
You have alot of things going on and Mom and Dad's answer seems very cold and uncaring.
I think you were never hugged enough and hardly if never told that you were beautiful and that you matter.
You really need a friend. A good friend who can see you for you and want to help you.
You need someone who can listen to you and validate you.
Do you have a close by family memeber who can be this and has been this?
I think that you need to do the individual counseling.
I think you need to give that a go before addressing this with the young man you fancy.
Ask the parents if they can do this for you.
Get back to us.
Keep us in the loop.
Some of us are wiling to be here when you need.
*hugs*
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