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Does he just want sex from me?

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Question - (10 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2012)
A female United States age 18-21, *rinityHunter writes:

So me and this guy have gotten to the point to where we practically text 24/7. We talk, yet not really about anything, just about how our day was and what each of us is doin' and small stuff like that. Well, a couple of weeks ago, I began sexting him. It's one of my favorite things to do and it's the only way I can do sexual stuff without all the risks. We sext almost everynight with each night, one or the other of us starting it. At school, he never brings up anything that we talk about on the phone or through texting. But then, last night we were up textin' around 2 AM. He asked me if I had multimedia messaging. I knew where he was goin' with it but I asked him anyways why he wanted to know. His phone doesn't have that kind of messaging and he told me that his cousin's phone does and that he wa asleep and if I would send him some pictures. Well, a while back my older sister sent pictures of herself to a guy and got caught and she always told me to not do it. So when he asked, I told him that I wouldn't do it. He just replied "oh... lol" I was mad that he would ask me to do somethin' like that so I didn't reply. He texted again askn' if I was still there. I still didn't reply. So then he texted sayin' good night and sweet dreams and then texted me good mornin' ths moring like usual. At some points, I feel like he only wants sex from me, but then he does things that make me feel like he's the best guy in the world. Like when he randomly buys me smal random things for me and just alot of sweet things he does. And I've read up on the internet on how to tell if the only thing a guy wants is sex but on most of the things, he just doesn't match up to a guy like that. I'm confused and don't know how to go about this or if I should just ask him. Any advice appreciatd!!! Thanks!!!

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A female reader, dimplez77 New Zealand +, writes (11 March 2012):

I believe that if you give someone enough rope they will hang a way you cant entirely blame him as you two are both responsible. You opened the door by sexting him and to him it probably seems like sexting and sending those kinds of pics are the same so to him its no big deal to him. You need to set boundaries and tell him that you dont like sending those types of pics. Furthermore althought sexting for you is fun i would advise you two start to tone it down a bit or you going to start feeling like hes only there for the sex. Which judging from what youve said he doesnt sound like he only wants sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2012):

I think this one is a good guy. If he doesnt match up to the guy who only wants sex from you, then don't be confused. I mean it's okay if he asks u to send him pictures of you, guys are guys, they love sex. Just tell him that you're not that kind of girl and that he should change that behavior.

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