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writes:Have been seeing someone for a short while. The sex is amazing, but for various reasons neither of us wants to get into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship at the moment, we value our freedom.My question is, when a guy uses your name and says "I adore you" when having sex, does he mean he adores having sex with you, or does he really adore you?Also, in this context, which is the stronger phrase, I love you or I adore you?Wondering whether he is starting to feel things more intensely/emotionally now than when we first got together.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Adoration is quite a strong thing, however it is different than love. I think he is developing feelings for you, however because of how you've talked about valuing your freedom, I think he may be being cautious about throwing around the L word.
"I love you" is the stronger phrase in my opinion, but I think he may be using "adore" instead so that you don't get scared.
If he were going to comment on the sex, he would comment on the sex. Saying something about you means it was about you.
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