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Does every girl masturbate? Any tips without including sex toys?

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Question - (23 August 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *vieA writes:

i am 16 years old and ive recently been getting sexual desires, the only way to kind of calm it down is to masturbate... but i really dont know how to.. i dont want to use a vibrator or anything like that, i want to use my fingers. how do you do masturbate? is this really strange? Does every girl masturbate?

Please help.

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A female reader, Aleisha United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2009):

hi, tbh i dont think it is weird i think it is something natural and that you are exploring your body in your own way, as of means of doing it just do what feels right or use something extra to spice it up a bit x

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A female reader, HORNYHELP. Canada +, writes (17 October 2008):

i masturbate too, and im someone people would least expect to but it just feels so amazing. so here are some great techniques.

1. get your middle finger and slide it into your vag, inside you'll feel a rough part on the top rub that in a "come hither" motion. while doing this with that natural juices on your fingers rub your clitoris.

2. if yuo have an electric toothbrush lying around place the bristles on your clit, turn the toothbrush on and feel the magic. you can also do this while fingering yourself.

3. you'll really appreciate shower heads. if you have a shower head that youc an take down turn the nozzle to a good preasure(dont wanna hurt yourself) and let that water run onto your clit. it will be amazing. before you do this you may wanna tease yourself by rubbing your nipples and touching down there.

remember to explore your body and when masturbating rubbing your breasts helps with the whole experience. hope i helped have fun :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

hey,

I am 14 going on 15 i have been masterbating since 13 n i didnt no wat i was doin down there is right but da net told me all anyways

I need tips on how 2 cum dunno how? Help plz

Btw ima chick.

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A female reader, GirlyonFire Canada +, writes (18 September 2008):

I like to create an increadibly sexy man in my mind. I pretend he is rubbibg me & touching me all over (with whatever part of his body I feel like that day) I spend alot of time rubbing my body. until my vagina is asking to feel him inside me. that's when I I start to tease my vagina & clit by rubbing & tickling the labia. I pretend it's this guy doing the touching. This usually gets my body hot enough to play with my clit or vagina (or both) It usually doesn't take very long after that to cum. Like a tease I guess. Sometimes I tease myself till I cum or "wait till it's begging" to feed it. Seriously though what you are imagining while you do it is far more important than what you are doing. If you have a poor imagination, try looking at videos or pictures or focus on any previous sex experiences (if any), maybe even a hot movie you watched one time. Let the brain, clit & vagina work together, Hope that makes sense to you

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A female reader, JustMeeLikee United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2008):

I finger myself and just lie back,

explore girl!

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008):

Hey,

I think pretty much all girls masterbate... It's just talked about less than males masterbating.

Everyone gets sexual desires... It's perfectly normal.

There is no specific way of masterbating... You just have to go down there and explore... See what feels good for you.

You could try a shower head.

If my answer is not what you are looking for then you can mail me if you like and I'll fill you in on what ever it is you want to know. You can find a link by clicking on my picture.

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A male reader, Nikuza Norway +, writes (23 August 2008):

Nikuza agony auntIt might be a little weird to get an answear from a guy but the way i understand it most girl masturbate, it can be something you start doing from any age! Most of those who claim that they dont do it are probably embarresed or confused about it themselves. When it comes to tips i guess its something you have to find out for yourself, remember that its not exactly the same for any girl (or guy) What triggers you and what pleases you is what you "should" be doing. But more details i guess a girl should explain.

- hope it helped

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