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Does anyone have any tips about squirting?

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Question - (1 September 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Can anyone help me please? My partner and I experiment in bed and we saw a porn film that involved a lady who squirted her cum. We have since tried this ourselves with no joy... does anyone have any tips?

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A male reader, gambitoofree United States +, writes (10 January 2010):

Here's a method that requires using your fingers:

The most reliable way to induce female ejaculation is by manual stimulation. Make sure your hands are clean and your nails well trimmed. Get into a comfortable position between her legs, as achieving ejaculation can take half an hour or more. Use lube if necessary to get started or in case she starts to feel dry.

Finding the G-Spot.

Begin by stroking or licking her clit to get her aroused. Once she begins to get turned on, insert two fingers, palm side up, into her vagina. About an inch to two inches inside the vaginal entrance, you should feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. This is the G-spot. Stroke against this area using firm pressure. It should enlarge and begin to feel more solid. Try touching or licking her clit as you manipulate the G-spot. Follow her responses and pace yourself to prolong her period of arousal; the more time she's aroused, the more juice is building up in there.

Before she ejaculates, she will fell The Urge to Urinate.

As she gets closer to ejaculating, she will start to feel as though she has to urinate. That's the fluid beginning to flow into her urethra. In order for her ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and push down and out with the same muscles she would use as if she were peeing. It may be hard to overcome the impulse to hold back, but you can reassure her, again, that if she is coming, she will not pee.

Instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid out, she should feel extra intense orgasmic pleasure, and you should be rewarded with a spurt of "nectar" that may range from gentle gush to a drenching spray.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

women can actually ejaculate when the g spot is stimulated right prostate gland in the woman which is like a sponge becomes excited and althoght the juices do come from the urethra the same place as the urin it is compleatly differnt and it is aomst impossible to pee whislt comming as the muscels down there tighten i am gay and both i and my gf ca squirl and it is efinatly not urine we are squirting it is sweet nectar that is oudour less so yea women can cum and squirt

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007):

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can i just say thank you for all your comments that link you gave me, we watched it and tried it, it didnt work... but we will master it eventually im sure.. thanks to you all xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007):

to the anon female i dont know what web site you visited,but i can assure you that women do squirt and it aint urine,its a clear fluid and can taste of anything that you ave been eating,just as a mans cum can taste different,im no porn star just a normal woman and mother and i only squirt when my man performs oral on me or mastubates my clit,only my current partner as been able to make me squirt and still can after 4 years of being together,maybe you`d like to see proof that it does happen an it isnt a camera trick or urine as you are lead to believe

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007):

Think I've seen that film! Basically, the woman are actually weeing but the porn filns makes it looks, through visual techniques, like it is cum (or, in some cases, someone is standing behind the woman's virgina squirting liquid in the air). Women cannot project their cum because it is slow releasing, so this is a physical impossibility. Unless the woman has something wrong with her!. I argued this once with my boyfriend, who was convinced he has done this with another girlfriend, so (being a jealous girl) I did intense research on the subject. It seems that she may have peed herself and pretended it was cum in the darkness, so as not to embarrass herself!! Good on you for experimenting though - shows a great healthy sex life! XX

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A male reader, Escalaya United States +, writes (2 September 2007):

Escalaya agony auntSquirting is something that is rarely actually done. Many women can't do it, believe it or not, in the porn industry alot of the times that the women "squirt" they're actually urinating. They force themselves to urinate for a squirting video, for money. It's not something you're able to MAKE yourself do. It's something you do, or you don't.

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (2 September 2007):

Dr. John agony auntAs I was moderating I found something pertaining to just such a question and I did happen to note the website that was supplied. However, I don't remember the particular question for you to refer to.

Anyway, here is the link. I just took a glance at it and I believe it is an instructional video.

Hope it helps. Doc.

http://youporn.com/watch/31706?user_choice=Enter

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