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writes:Hi guys, this may be a bit long, I just hope is not too longOk, I'm in uni, and there is this girl in my class that I'm interested in, so like a week ago I decided that I would suck up my fears and approach her and I did, for my surprise we actually got along, but I didn't want to get my hopes up too fast, because well, talking and getting along doesn't mean that she is interested or anything. Then another day we talked again after class and we walked to the bus stop together while talking about ourselves, and I'm surprised that she has common interests with me, like we like a lot of te same food, and she likes a but of geeky stuff just like me ( yea yea, im a bit of a geek) so it was a good chat. We also went to eat together for a bit and we taller some more, to be honest we were both kind of nervous :p. And i think we enjoyed hanging out, at least o enjoyed and she seemed that she liked it too, at least she didnt Hate it i guess. So i want to ask her out soon, or maybe we should just keep hanging out and ask her out soon, i dont know, or maybe just go with the flow and do what i feel is right and natural. Is just that all this seems so un real for me, i dont have any dating experience and everything i have tried i Febres it would bomb, and actually everything has been going well, even better that i hoped, so in confused, i dont really know that well how to keep this going strong.Im actually surprised how smooth everything has been, i was expecting this to be moré difficult, maybe i underestimated how good is to just approach girls while seeming confident.So what do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, 1busybee  +, writes (22 September 2012):
Sounds like things are going fine. Stay confident and enjoy your time together. If you know of a fun thing that you are going to do mention it to her then ask, is that something that you too might enjoy doing? If she says yes then ask her for the date if not you can always say something like oh I guess that's what makes people so different and let it go. No harm in trying!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2012): I think your doing awesome man, your doing great and honestly it probably would best if you do what you feel is right. It sounds like you don't need any help at all and yes she could be as nervous as you, she's human just like you.
This ain't really advice, I'm just cheering ya on, good luck man, be yourself man and keep up the confidence!!
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