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writes:Do you think my friend is trying to set me up with her friend, and should i meet up with him/them ?. She has said quite a few times that he really wants to meet me, and she said he is a nice guy, and that he is six years older than me. She has just got a new boyfriend recently and she said i'll have to meet him too. Do you think i should meet up with her friend alone, or meet up with him and my friend, or do you think all four of us should meet up together ?. I'd feel a bit funny meeting a guy that i dont know, and would feel bad if he is attracted to me and interested, if it turns out that i dont feel the same way. No offense, but i hope he isnt someone who is desperate or something. I wont know unless i meet him though. It might even turn out that i like him !. Has anyone else here ever been in this kind of situation ?. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): iv so been down this road and still am. u just have to hold on tight and enjoy the ride!
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reader, lsickle  +, writes (16 June 2010):
i personally have never been in that type of situation. But a penny for my thoughts the positive side first. Your girlfriend has hopefully known this unknown gentlemen for at least a little while so she knows what she is setting u up with. Maybe u have exspressed one way or another lonliness and she is being a true friend and trying help with your happiness even though it is a bit of a risky move setting people because im sure u know, the relationship goes bad and it could hurt your friendship. And he could be right up your alley and u get a connection. Now unfortunatly the negitive side..one possibility and this goes for your friend or .ore likely the boyfriend. Lets for argument sake say boyfriend has expressed thought of being uncomfortable with a third wheel not to say u are this is all hypothetical. And another reason could be that your friend doesnt know the guy from a hole in the wall and a bit of the boyfriends colors come out by him talking your friend into setting up the boyfriends friend with one of her girlfriends in which case isnt all that comforting for u...this may seem wrong but there is a few ways to check this out. Easy way if u have facebook and your girlfriend has fb and her boyfriend does after the meeting (which could be a bolt of lighting for u and this is how u meet the one fate can be cruel but it can also be cool, god does work in mysterious ways and has a sense of humor and i know about that) you can see if he is in your girlfriends list of friends or her boyfriends and if he is in both then the chances are its the boyfriends friend. But seriously what the hell live a little be spontanious. Worse case the guy is a flop in al ways...best case he is the one. The middle ground he could be fun enjoyable and just the right now dude. That still gives u a sixty six percent chance that it will be good times overall this gets a thumbs up
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