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writes:Hi. I've been in a relationship for about a year now and we hardly see each other. We stay about 8 hours apart and I've been trying to get him to travel down or for me to go see him. He thinks it is a bad idea since we promised each other to avoid sex and all he talks about is where will I stay if I come and how he has to take leave off work to come. Now we never get to see each other and i've not seen him for 4 months. I'm travelling out of the country to go school in Europe. He knows this and he has no plans for us to meet. He says he loves me and he will never leave me, but I'm tired of us not seeing each other. Do you think I should go see him regardless of the fact he doesn't want that or I should go on with my life. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Relationships take both people making an effort to make it work and be happy. You are doing all the work; he is not.You basically no longer have a relationship with him, sounds like to me.Forget about him, and start planning for your schooling in Europe - think about the new places and people you'll see and meet and look forward to some great new experiences!
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reader, kit_e_kat  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 It sounds to me like he isn't doing enough to give you the time you deserve out of this relationship. You may not want to hear this, but there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are too young to be trying to hold on to a guy so far from you. I know it must be hard if you love him but it seems to be upsetting you because you are not together and he isn't making an effort. Maybe you should tell him you want to take a break, since you are going to Europe this is the perfect time. Still stay friends give yourself time to think whether you truly want to carry on with a long distance relationship. But you're young so live your life and meet the guy who will treat you like a Goddess and be there for you everyday no matter what. Hope i helped x x
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