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writes: I met a guy who is a friend of a friend, when I was out for this friend's birthday. While we were out, he mentioned that he had never seen me round there before, I live in another town and he said you'll have to start coming here and mentioned he goes out round there every week. I'm not sure if that meant anything? I liked him, but didn't say anything about it to him at the time. I gave him my number, but he has never contacted me.I told my friend I like him, but she didn't say anything about it, such as whether he had a girlfriend, or any kind of comment.I sent him a friend request on facebook soon after. Usually, when you've sent a request, it says "friend requested" next to their name until they add you. I added him when it was the old facebook, it has recently swtiched to the new version of facebook.I've looked near his name since then, through someone else's page, as he hadn't added me and it didn't say "friend requested" any more, it said "add as a friend".I'm wondering if he rejected my friend request, since he hasn't added me and since it doesn't say friend requested anymore, or maybe he didn't get the request because it was sent on the old facebook? I don't see how you could add someone again if they've already rejected you?Does anyone know anything about why that could be? Has it happened to you?I don't know if Ii should try adding him again as I might feel embarrassed if he has rejected it then rejects it again.I'm hoping I can go round the town we went round again as well and either arrange to meet him or just see if I bump into him there sometime.A girl who hung around with us both, I talked to her and this guy mainly, apart from my friend who's birthday it was, has added me as a friend so I might try and arrange to go there with her sometime. I don't know if I will mention him going as well. If I go the night she is there, he might be there anyway. And if he isn't, I'll enjoy meeting up with her anyway, as she was good to get on with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): That seems quite mean really, especially as he was nice enough when I saw him. He even gave me a hug when I was leaving when I saw him.I hope my friend who I mentioned that I liked him to, hasn't said anything to him? Or maybe there is another reason?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): I havent read your whole question, just the part about facebook as that was the main thing you wanted to know.
It always says, "Friend Requested" whilst it is pending. Always. It will revert back to "Add Friend" once it has been rejected. There is no grey area, that is how it is.
It only says "Add Friend" if you do not have a request pending with a person
So yes, he has DEFINETLY clicked "ignore"
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