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anonymous
writes:i split up with my boyfriend when i was working abroad, for no reason other than it was too hard for me to enjoy my dream job abroad being with him as it made me want to go home and be with him.we kept in contact fairly often a few txt messages a week, i was away from home for 7months and in that kept in contact until the 4th or 5th month in. i still txted him thru out my time abroad,but with no replys from him!! freinds and family saw him out and about regularly and would tell me he didnt understand why we split and he was slightly angry at the fact we had split but was very upset and confused at why we had split! im now back home and txt him to see if he was ok and to see if he wanted to catch up but he still has given me no reply! i know he hasnt chnaged his number as we have a few of the same mates! do i take that as a hint and just leave it? or keep trying i really miss him but know that it was my choice to break up with him? i know i have hurt him but this is hurting me alot also and making me not move on with my life! what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): It sounds like you made a big mistake throwing away a man you cared about just because you were abroad for a few months and it was "too hard" to keep in touch. If I was your boyfriend, i would be really hurt and not want to talk to you either. It sounds like it took him a while to get over you and would be very cautious about letting you back in his life, since you hurt him for a pretty flimsy reason. How can you be trusted? If you are really serious about your regret and wanting him back, you might have to work a little harder than texting him. Can you try to go see him in person and talk to him? Why not pick up the phone and call him? Texting is pretty lame honey, sorry. If you are not serious then do not start up again and hurt him all over again. Just leave him alone.
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