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Do I reply to his 'reply' or will that make me look needy?

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Question - (10 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2007)
A female age 41-50, *ucasama writes:

Is it right to reply to an email when this one was already replied back?

there is this guy who I adore so much, but I didn't had any news for a while ago. So I write him an email, and did reply and wrote "hope everything's OK for you", should I write him back. Please help I don't want to look needy.

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A male reader, pootycorp Australia +, writes (10 August 2007):

Just reply already!!!!

Life's too short for stuffing around and second guessing what someone will think! If you like him, just put yourself out there!!

You go girl!!!!!!

Scotty

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A female reader, skye United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2007):

skye agony auntI dont see why not! There is no reason to look needy. Just keep your email friendly and light. Tell him that you are fine and it was nice of him to ask. Mention that you are emailing him because you havent heard anything in a while and you wondered what he was up to. He should see this as you being interested in his life.

Tell him a little of what you have been doing. Perhaps something quite funny has happened to you that you think he would enjoy hearing about? Keep things friendly at all times. Finish with wishing him well and perhaps even a breezy "chat soon". If he replys then you will know he has time for you and you should try emailing again. If he doesnt reply, dont waste any more time on him or you will surely end up hurting. Im sorry, but at least you will know.

I hope you get the answer you are hopeing for.

Good luck,

Skye

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007):

Sure. Write him back and tell him. "thanks everything is ok for me." And then tell him about something that's been happening to you in your life. THAT'S POSITIVE. Write to him like he's your friend and you trust him. That way he might open up to you a bit more. Anyways men find that charming. And don't ask him too many questions, if any. Keep it casual.

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