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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hiya.i have used this site before and it has been a great help.I'm 18 and me and my ex ended last august and remained friends,i got with someone new and he wanted me back i said no and then when i split up from the new person he wanted me back again,it has always been an on/off relationship (for about 2years) and because of stuff happening we are hardly talking anymore,it wasn't an healthy relationship (i constantly needed reassuring and depending on him for my every need which made him feel pressured),anyway that isnt my problem now,but i still dont feel over him.A guy from college who i have liked for awhile well we kissed at a party and he admitted to me that he liked me before and ever since he saw me he wanted to kiss me (he's a year younger than me),now he wants to be more than just friends but i'm not sure.i wanted him before when i thought he didnt want me, i saw him as a challenge and tried for it.my friends tell me that he treats me really well and that i should take a chance as every other lad i have been with have been what you call 'bad boys'.But the things that is bugging me is that i never want what is good for me, i always chose the guys that are bad.I'm really confused at the minute,do i need to be on my own?xxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 There are times , when you are on your own and be free like a bird. There are times when you think you want to be with someone who can share your journey in life together.
There are times when you like to live in a cage where you have security...
Enjoy those times when you are free and those times when you have company.
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