Do I love him enough?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, i went back to my marriage after my husband had previously walked out on me (i never thought marriage was such hard work but we are working hard at it). We are both from Europe but two different countries, I am now living in Spain to be with him. We are making another go at our marriage, but my problem is that why do i feel sometimes that i dont want to be with him, our sex life is practically non existent i sometimes wonder is it him i really want to be with, i am reasonably happy, my feelings are mixed from day to day, one day i look at him and believe i cant be without him and then i just want to get away, I honestly dont know what is wrong with me, do i really want to stay with him. We have talked about children, sometimes i want to and then other times i ask my self is this the person i really want to have children. Another thing is i have this nagging though at the back of my head that he is gay. (am i just looking for excuses)) Do you think its a case that i dont really love him enough? or is it the fact that i am just unsettled and am the type of person that will never be happy? Othertimes i look at men and think would things be better or would i be happier if i was with them. what is wrong with me?? please advise

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