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Do I leave it alone or tell him of my feelings?

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Question - (15 April 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *eart245 writes:

Okay so I'm fifteen and i have this friend thats 16 we have known each other since we were in pre-k together and never lost contact to this day we see each other pretty often and talk alot. He is my oldest and truest friend in the world, but lately I have started to feel i want more. We started playing 20 questions once and i decided to ask him what he look for in a girl. He said, "i want someone who is trustworthy and honest, beautiful but not cocky, someone i can be totally myself with, smart and funny too. Honestly, not to make you feel wierd or anything, someone alot like you."

I really think I'm starting to develop feelings for each other but i dont want anything to come between our friendship, although our friendship doesnt seem to falter easily. We have made out but at a friends house on a dare but i still feel natural with him i feel thats one reason i like him soo much we can always feel comfortable around each other.

I honestly dont know what to do whether to let him know how i feel or wait and remain as we are now. Please help.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 April 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI think you both have feelings for each other, and you only live once so I would say go for it, I know you are worried that it might come between your friendship but again it could become so much more for both of you and I don't see why it would ruin things if you both want the same thing. So yeah I think you should go for it and tell him you like him, you have nothing to lose.

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