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writes: Sir, I am in dilema whether i have to go for second marriage or not.Regards Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): married?if you love your partner and want to be with them always then go ahead and be happy as mr&mrs.your past is gone concentrate on your future and your happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): Do you really want to get married? I'm not sure or you wouldn't be asking us this question! Think carefully about it. If you really want to then go ahead but at the end of the day it is entirely your decision.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (19 December 2006):
 i think u can get married for the second time i really dont see anything wrong with that. like irish said this time it can really work than the first time bcos u had the experience of what went wrong in the first one, and if it was ur fault well now this will be like a second chance for u. and please dont do the mistake that other people do, do not compare the spouses, people are not the same and will never be. please tell us what u will decide. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): When a person goes into a second marriage, most of the time the first marriage ended in dvorce and even sometimes people are widowed . Second marriages can work depending on attitudes and a whack of other circumstances. There are some important issues that you and your new love things should talk about before you plan the walk down the aisle.
Divorces can embitter some people without them even realizing it, So make sure you have a clean plate, free of all anger, resentment and emotional baggage from the 1st marriage. Make sure you don't have prior debt and financial baggage. And what about the ex and the kids?. You new finacee will want to know if you financial obligations to your first family. It’s important to both of you, to discuss and resolve as many financial matters as possible while you’re still in the 'in-love' phase and want the best for each other. So in a nutshell...two very important things to discuss, hash out and lay it all on the table. Emotional baggage and financial baggage. Good luck-it can work but good communication is the key ingredient. And whatever you do--learn from and take a good life lesson from the mistakes of your first marriage.
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