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Do I date this guy in my band or the other fellow who is 9 years older?

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Question - (13 December 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2005)
A female , *zzyStradlin writes:

Hi, I really need some advice urgently! ok well im 16 and in a band, and i think my guitarist likes me ALOT. He is always play fighting with me and telling me that I rock and that im special. He is always staring at me and he just seems so perfect. I don't think I have ever met a nicer guy. The problem is, he is so innocent and has never had a girlfriend before. I just feel I'm to much of a cheesy as it may sound "Bad girl" for him, also, i dont want to get bored of him. And if I go out with him, and i do get bored, then my band is over. Then to make matters worse. I'm friends with a guy, who is considerably older than me (9 yrs older),I've been friends with him for 3 years and he turned round the other day anmd has told me he loves me. I think I feel the same but im not sure, i like my guitarist as well. I'm soo confusd and just really have no idea what to do.

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A female reader, mommyofthree +, writes (13 December 2005):

mommyofthree agony auntYou are 16 and as such you are interested in many people at one time, if I were you I would not form a relationship with any of them until you are sure of which one you want. It would be unfair to everyone involved if you picked the wrong one and created a dominoe effect of broken hearts as you work your way down the line.

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