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*orrytoomuch
writes:So my ex contacted me over the internet to ask how I was. He asked me to "please don't just ignore" him. We broke up about 4 months ago and haven't spoken in about 3. We had a great relationship. It was wonderful.. we broke up because timing/maturity, etc. We were together for 2 years. Was he just wanting to see how I was or is he second guessing our separation? I told him I was doing good and asked him why he contacted me so randomonly. He said he just wanted to see how I was. His response was very short and didn't respond to me asking how HE was. My question is.. what was the point of him going out on a limb and contacting me after we had a hard breakup and agreed on no contact? And why would he be so short after I responded?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): He may be having second thoughts
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): He is missing you most likely. Two years is a long time to date someone and even though you may know the relationship didn't work, you still remember the love and the good times and get weak.
I would tread carefully, you broke up for a reason. If you want to try to get back together, then you must ask what his reasons were and if anything has changed or you will just find yourselves going through another painful breakup down the road.
If you have moved on and are happy, probably the best thing for you is to stay out...three months is really not long enough to get over this relationship and become friends....it is too soon for that....good luck what ever you decide.
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reader, worrytoomuch +, writes (17 August 2009):
worrytoomuch is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo clarify..He broke up with me. Thanks for the help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): It depends who broke up with who
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 maybe he was hoping you would say "im not so good, im feeling bad about our break up, lifes hard without you and i miss you"
it looks and sounds like that IS what he was hoping for, the fact your responded in a way he didnt want you to upset him. if you love this guy and your relationship was good, why not give things another go?
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