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Did he just want to see how I was doing, or is he having second thoughts about our separation?

Q.   So my ex contacted me over the internet to ask how I was. He asked me to "please don't just ignore" him. We broke up about 4 months ago and haven't spoken in about 3. We had a great relationship. It was wonderful.. we broke up because ...

A.   17 August 2009: To clarify..He broke up with me. Thanks for the help!... (read in full...)

What is keeping him from meeting me in person?!

Q.   i am currently talking to a guy that i met from online chatting. after talking to him for about two weeks, i find out that his good friend knows my best friend at the university that my best friend attends. i like this guy's personality and the way ...

A.   21 June 2009: I would agree with the previous answer. You can't really get a true vibe from someone unless you meet them. It hasn't been too long so just give it time. Maybe he's hesitant because he's never met someone whom he met online before. Maybe he's ... (read in full...)

I need support from someone. Should I call my ex or let him go?

Q.   So my ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago after being together for two years. The reason was because he felt we needed space. Basically the whole 2 years was all about each other...we were each others lives.He even talked about marriage a lot.. ...

A.   27 May 2009: Thanks Eve.. That was really nice and has made me feel better. You are right. It's just so hard. We were not each other's first serious..we both had one other serious before each other. But you are right. It's so hard to accept after being together ... (read in full...)

I need support from someone. Should I call my ex or let him go?

Q.   So my ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago after being together for two years. The reason was because he felt we needed space. Basically the whole 2 years was all about each other...we were each others lives.He even talked about marriage a lot.. ...

A.   27 May 2009: Wow.. Thanks for the responses but for the first response-- I did not sleep with him after he broke up with me. I've never slept with him actually in the whole two years. I believe that's between a man and a woman who are married. And as far as e... (read in full...)

He's sweet and lovely and caring... and cheating on his girlfriend with me.

Q.   I'm in a bit of a mess... I met a man through one of my male friends. He has a girlfriend of 2months. He has text me day and night for the past week and a half and even when she is there with him he does it, he seems so caring and nice espcially i...

A.   26 May 2009: I'm not sure how to say this but.. I'd completely cut your relation with him. Why would you want to be with someone who is willing to cheat on someone he's committed to? That will only cause you to feel insecure in your relation with him.. even if ... (read in full...)

I want to seperate, but how do I say it?

Q.   I want to leave my husband of 6 years but am not sure how to say it. He says its obvious I don't love him (which isn't entirely true) but I am not "in love" with him anymore my question is, how do I tell him. I hate hurting him and seeing him c...

A.   5 May 2009: Well. You need to be honest, straight up, and with nothing held back. You may think you are saving him the pain but honestly, you're only prolonging it and in the end, hurting him worse. Please don't feel so bad about this. I know it hurts having to ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's new female friends!

Q.   BF and I have been going out 3 years and this year I've graduated and started working and he started another course in uni. He's always been very outgoing and had lots of friends, but mostly guys who I know quite well. But since starting his new ...

A.   5 May 2009: This is sort of tough to analyze but, to me, he should ask you to go to these parties with him...and you should go! They may not know if he's the type of guy who will play around or not.. and they need to see he's fully committed to you and only ... (read in full...)

My fiance won't let me see his email! Is this childish?

Q.   My fiance refuses to let me see his email. He signs on under his own account on my computer. He says it is something that is "just his" and won't give me the password. We are both in our 40's. I think this is childish...or he's hiding something. The ...

A.   5 May 2009: Hmm.. he is hiding something. I can understand that he may want his privacy and all and that's fine. You don't have to know his password because it isn't really right to be able to look at it without his permission (not because you shouldn't see it ... (read in full...)

Is this a break? Or his way of saying goodbye?

Q.   My boyfriend and I just recently broke up... or took a break... or something in between? We were together for 2 years. well recently things had become really bad with fighting and crap so we decided to like not talk for a week to sorta clear our ...

A.   17 April 2009: Thanks so much for your reply. I know my question is long so I appreciate that you read an took the time to answer :). What you said makes a lot of sense. I hope you are right about everything. We still haven't been in contact and it's now been... (read in full...)

He doesn't do anything sweet anymore!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. I am 22 and he is 26. He used to be so sweet and affectionate towards me before we started dating, he used to call me 6-7 times in a day and he always wanted to spend time with me. But he is so ...

A.   11 April 2009: I think I would sit down with him and have a serious heart to heart. Let him know that you need a little more. It's normal that all the "lovey-dovy" stuff sort of becomes not as strong as when you two first got together; however, there is a fine ... (read in full...)

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