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writes:there is thhis guy I real like think I am falling in love with him been going on date with him since sept but when I try to talk about commiting he wotn talk just say I should be haapy to be free and single but told him I dont want that he still wont talk yet he still want to see me when can and is not busy with work. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sabrena  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Seems to me he is after Friends With Benefits kinda thing or he just wants to be ur friend just ur friend because if a man loves/likes/interested in a woman he would not like her to be free and single trust me.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 He did talk... you just did not want to listen.
Do you think that a guy who answers with " be happy to be single and free " to your requests, is someone who is likely to commit to you ? no, because obviously he sees being sigle and free as a happy state that does not need to be changed.
You cannot force people to commit when they don't want, so I am afraid your only choices are either to accept the situation as it is for the time being, - or dump the guy.
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