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anonymous
writes:I met someone on holiday and whilst he tried every day to get me into bed I didn't. There was one "girl" on the ship who said to me she thought he used to be a woman because he had such a squeeky voice-I turned off her he didn't understand why-but I did not want to hurt him by telling him exactly what she said however he disliked me for turning off her. When we got home he said he would like to meet up. We did for a drink and all he did was talk about how he had flirted. We have emailed a few times on a friendly basis and then today he confessed to me he wasn't attracted to me on holiday!!! SO if this WAS the case why did he try every day to get me into bed, then in front of everyone have a tantrum because he hadn't got what he wanted and why did he say to someone else in front of me "He wished he was better looking?" I am probably over protective because I was brought up in homes and we all know what happens in SOME of the children's homes etcWhy does he suddenly hate me so much IF he had/has got someone else, why not tell the truth why say he never fancied me and why then bother to meet me when we got home even if it was just for sex then he MUST have fancied me a bit else he wouldn't have got so cross on holiday because I hadn't slept with him.COULDNT he have put it in a nicer way than say he didn't fancy me?????WHAT I HAVE DONE WRONG?????
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reader, JennayyyCx3  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 guys like that arent gonna put it any kinder..if you dont agree to sleep with him hes gonna think it has to do with his appearence (cause girls DONT have morals or anything.. ;]) so when you "attack" i guess that aspect..hes gonna attack yours so YOUR self esteem will hit rock bottem. Thats what immature people do..when i broke up with this one guy he replied with "Whatever you arent even that pretty and i cheated on you like ten times" So yeah..boys arent that hard to figure out there true meanings..dont even stress it...he aint worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): Come on. He wanted sex you didn't give it him. So he tried to hurt you out of spite, and you've swallowed it hook line and sinker. Wash that man right out of your hair girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks
But he is not trying to get me into bed in fact he doesnt want to hear from me or see me ever again so that is that
he doesnt even want to stay friends because I think he has found someone which of course is up to him - BUT I wish he hadnt said those things and could hjave put it a bit kinder.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYesI knew why he attacked me verbally on holiday but why now??? IF he has met someone which I think he has then why not say so or just say he is "off" relationships any old rubbish BUT why say he didnt find me attractive if he tried to get me into bed unless of course he doesnt have to be attracted to someone to go to bed and was letting me know thatvery hurtful
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reader, guillaume +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Hi,
You did nothing wrong. I'm a guy, I know why he said what he said! I'm going to whisper this to you,.....the reason he said what he did was......(because you wouldn't give him sex!)
That hurt his pride, that's why he attacked.
take care, G xx
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