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writes:Hi, I've currently been with my boyfriend for 9 months I love him dearly but haven't told him nor as he told me,but recently his been calling me "my love" and when play fighting said he would take his love elsewhere. We only see one another weekends but he said he always misses me and I make him very happy. Could this mean he does love me but is shy about saying it? His 29 and I'm his first girlfriend. Many thanks.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (23 September 2012):
 I spent 7 years in a relationship with a woman who NEVER said "I love you"...... It was excruciating because - as I ultimately learned - she DIDN'T love me.... and is incapable of loving.... ANYBODY.
Only when I realized that I was wasting my time with her did I finally decide to break things off and we went our separate ways.....
I think I've learned that if a partner doesn't SAY "I love you" and also doesn't EXHIBIT 'I love you' - in SOME MANNER - then a person WILL (finally) get frustrated and seek out a partner who IS capable of loving them....
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (23 September 2012):
 Many men do not say "I love you" but show it in many other ways. What is your gut instinct telling you? We really cannot answer that question for you...only you can know. It definitely sounds like you have a good thing going.
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