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writes: I have known this guy at work for a while now and although we both work in different departments we bump into each other on a weekly basis and we have talked in the past. Everytime I bump into him by accident he stops in his tracks and stares straight at me, and for some reason I reciprocate his actions. I was wandering if someone can tell me what this means? Well to complicate the situation at other times he will try to avoid me, and sometimes if I try to talk to him he feels really uneasy and he avoids eye contact, but then on the rare occasion when we have talked the eye contact is definitely there. Can some guys and girls out there tell me how to interpret this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2006): If you ask me, I think your both doing a form of flirting without even knowing it. The subconsious mind can be an extraordinary thing. Just ask him out on a date, and go from there. thats probably whats going on. (The same thing happened to me).
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): No one can tell you what he's thinking , dear. The only way to find out...as Smiggles suggests...ask him out for a coffee and get to know him. Make sure to smile and that should relax him. If he says yes, then go for it and have fun. If he says no, you have your answer. He's not interested. The only way to find out is to: take the risk! Good luck
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 It seems that both of you have communication issues.
Don't ask us to interpret. We aren't witnessing the behaviours directly. I agree with Hot - Why not just invite him along the next time you go for a break? People do this all the time at the office, and it's a casual act - it's not like you're asking him for sex. If he doesn't have the balls to invite you, then by all means take the lead and invite him to join you on your break.
Then both of you can start chatting with each other in a setting less tension-filled than the office.
Good luck and take care.
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reader, Smiggles +, writes (27 July 2006):
Yeah. I get that with a guy at my college. It really is simple what you have to do. You have to ask him out for a coffee some time. You can't keep being uneasy with each other for the rest of your days. Go out for a coffee and take it from there. If he isn't the right guy for you then move on. Then you guys will be alot easier with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): Who knows what it means?! Do you want to try to get to know him better? If not, be polite, and then pass on without trying to get into conversation.
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (27 July 2006):
 He fancies you love! I get that with a guy who likes me, he gets nervous and shy and does not give eye contact. So what you need to do is to ask him out for a coffee one lunchtime or whatever. Go for it, what have you got to lose?!
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