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writes:what is the best way to know whether one of my married lady colleague to whom i love very much love me or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, Rbd89  +, writes (25 April 2010):
First, You should not be intruding in a marriage that is the worst thing you can do for them and for yourself. marriage is sacred. That being said (sorry for the harshness). If someone loves you they will tell you,if they are in relationship they will leave because they love you. However if this lady is just flirting with you and there has been no other contact. She is just looking for attention outside of marriage because she feels a little unappreciated it and the fact that she has not initiated anything else, (im not sure she has, you didnt say) that means its the attention you give her that she is after. If there has been something initiated, sex or just spending time and she does not leave her partner...she does not love you. Remember that if they are not willing to spend time with you or take your feelings into consideration..thats not love at all.
good luck!
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