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writes:been single 3 month well almost 4 after splittin with my boyfriend of 2 an half year we were still very much in love an still had a strong spark after 2 year we were a match from the start but after tryin to battle with his drink problem for so long after loosin his bro an although he managed a number of times to quit for a few weeks sometimes a month or two ended up back on it so we split now hes got a new lass but i still love him an regret leavin because i know how much love was between us could he still love me as much as he did ?? could it b possible to be over me already ??
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (5 November 2008):
 The way i see it is that you obviously broke up because the relationship was not going as smoothly as you wish it too, and im sorry t say it huni but those problems havent just vanished because hes with a new lass! I appricate how hard it must be wanting what once was t be there again but the harsh reality is its highly unlikly that things would be so special again with his drinkin problems. Also, you was with him for a while, are you sure you still love him? Could it be a case of you was with him for so long that you just cant let him go? It may be that because your seeing him with someone new you suddenly want him again. But i do promise you, once you do move on you'll realize breakin up with him was for the best.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (5 November 2008):
 He's probably not over you. But eventually eveyone moves on and he probably thinks he has blown his chances with you and he thinks that your not going to go back, and really as much as you love him you shouldn't try be with him right now. His drinking will always be his priority.It sounds like you have given him a few chances to try and help him but he's not ready to face up to what ever his problems are, and until he does you won't have the relationship that you want or deserve.
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