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writes:okay so me and my boyfriend been together for a year and 4 months. im am living with him! and our relation ship is great. we never fight about whos cheating on who. his very romantic he always brings flowers to me. and soo on.okay so i founf a misssing condom. and i ask him about it and he smile and said idk its probably in there you just didnt look right !than i had told him that i did check various times dan he look at me for quiet a few minutes. and than he got mad. and said i work the whole day i barely have time for you you think i would have time for another girl. okay so dan i started thinking he works at the store from 11 to 9 and his work place its downstares from where we live. so i dont know what to think! ............what to do you guys think!? is he cheating?.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Some men masturbate using condom for easy clean up.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 First off if the relationship is doing so well why do is there a tally being taken on the number of condoms. One could be missing for a whole bunch of reasons. It could be under the bed or have been lost in clothes. I don't think he is cheating. He got defensive when you said something because no one wants to be accused of this. I would wait for a way bigger clue than this otherwise you could take it to the point where the relationship ends and thats just not healthy. I'm not saying forget about it but you really need more proof. Keep an eye out for these things but make sure that you properly evaluate everything and do not jump to conclusions.
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reader, Lilylove1 +, writes (21 August 2010):
If he was mysterious about it, maybe he was planning a 'suprise in the bedroom' with it. And what he said about not having time for another girl that's very sweet although maybe he was upset about you ruining the 'suprise'. Don't take it seriously sister, it was just a missing condom. Maybe it fell out in the car or house??
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