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Confused! First time sex!

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Question - (18 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so yesterday i had sex.

it was great but i was in pain for 6 or mre mins

but i didnt bleed i wanted to know if this is normal??

and also after we were done i was so sore and tired

i didnt want to move i also had to pee alot is this normal also??

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A female reader, kaylagal United States +, writes (18 March 2009):

kaylagal agony auntI'm 100% with Satindesire, you are way too young to be having sex. Even if you use protection, no contraceptive is 100%. You can get pregnant or a disease. Please wait until you are older.

Answer to your question: Yes it's normal not to bleed when you lose your virginity.

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2009):

Fiona xxx agony auntI didn't bleed either, so it's likely that your hymen broke playing sports instead. Not sure about the pain, but perhaps you were not relaxed or turned on enough because you were nervous? Being tired I imagine because it's a physical and emotional thing, and possibly relieved that your first time is over, so emotionally demanding in more ways than one? Do I assume that any discomfort was OK the next day?

Fiona.

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A female reader, amber_schram United States +, writes (18 March 2009):

amber_schram agony auntSatindesire how do you know if she used protection or not? You didn't answer her question, you antagonized what she did wrong and she aint saying nothing about using protection or not, okay ta your question uhm I don't know hunn, I'm a virgin still but he probably didn't pop your cherry if you didn't bleed and yes you're suposed to be sore and tired and I'm not sure about the peeong thing. Sorry I wasn't of much help but good luck in getting your answer sweetie!

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