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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. Last week, we were getting hot and heavy and after all that, I asked him if he ever thought about having sex. I'm still a virgin, I don't know about him but I'm pretty sure he still is. Anyway, he had this big smile and or grin on his face like he wanted to do it. Then he says, "but you're gonna have to get the condom." I told him why (as in why should i have to do it) and that I didn't know how to choose one. He then says "because I don't want you to get preggers and you're the nurse you should know." So a week later we're at it again and halfway he says he's not in the mood. Did I scare him off or is he no longer interested in me anymore? Please help!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Just because you're going to nursing school doesn't mean you know what brand of condoms that are recommended. Because he sounds lazy in buying condoms, I would make sure you go out and get a pack (they're all about the same) just in case. Also look into birth control asap, if you think you're going to be losing your V-card pretty soon.
It sounds more or less liking he's not sure that he's ready to take your virginity. There's no need to pressure him into taking it, or talking about it. You will lose it when you're both ready. In the meantime prepare yourself.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 May 2011):
 He probably just wasn't in the mood. Unless it happens again I don't see any reason he'd be scared off. Nothing about that conversation screams "scary" it just sounds responsible.
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