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writes:ok so i am in a relationship that i have been in for over 7 years now and i have been seeing someone on the side for about 3 months he is i guess you can say he is my booty call. he has a is in a relationship also with a woman for about a year now. he and i are next door neighbors. my relationship has been doing not so well for the past few years, i have never cheated on my boyfriend until now... well i think i an falling in love with this other guy and i don't know if he feels the same way. he looks at me like he might be falling in love with me, he basicly drops everything to come see me and he breaks plans with his girlfriend to spend time wit of. i know he has he has been hurt a lot in his part with ex girlfriends and i just want to show him that i would never hurt him like that but i don't know how. i just need some advice on what to do with the whole situation. i really care about this guy a whole lot but i don't want to get hurt or make the wrong decision... help of
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): Maybe show him he can trust you by suggesting that if you both want this to continue you both need to break of your relationships and get together officially. No sneaking around and betraying people as it isn't a great start.
Just my personal view so ignore it if you wish! If you aren't sure how serious he feels about you then maybe wait a little while before suggesting this and if you aren't already, do things together other than meet for sex to see if you both get along and have similar interests.
But the longer this goes on the crueler it is to both your partners. I don't agree with people cheating but I don't judge people for doing it, everyone is different. But imagine how you would feel if your role was reversed, even try reading a few posts on here from people who have been cheated on and you'll see the heartache and pain it causes.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (1 November 2010):
That is tough, you have already made yourself look untrusting. I guess find out if he likes you as well. Breaking dates with his girlfriend might show he likes you. Do you guys do anything besides sex? Watch movies, play games, meaningful conversations? That may be a sign as well.
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