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writes: I was cheated on by my ex. I've got a new partner and have been with him 4 and half years but still find it hard to trust. He says we won't last if I can't trust him but how do I learn to trust when I've given trust in the past, only for it to be taken away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): Tell me... how long were you single between breaking up with your ex and getting together with your new partner?
I wonder if you found someone else before you were ready for a relationship. It takes time to evaluate in your head everything that went on and come to see that not all people cheat.
You've been with your new partner for a long time, I'm surprised he has stuck it out if you have never found it easy to trust him and I'm not surprised he is now saying it won't last.
If you are unable to trust him on your own then maybe you should consult a counselor? Or personally I would recommend a hypnotherapist as you will only need to see them for a few sessions and you should notice remarkable results. Good luck, I hope you can manage to sort it out..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): learning to trust is a day to day thing, dont rush anything, my husband stopped trusting me 2 yrs ago after an internet "affair" i had. Now that i have spoke to him, and we talk rather than shout, he tells me he is starting to trust and understand me now xXx
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