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writes: hey, I'm 20 and I have problems with my relationships, but I find myself thinking about just one person. He was my first love and I have a feeling that we have uncompleted task, but don't know how to tell him I want us back together, because I was the one who broke up with him. I still love him and need him back.Thanks
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 Just come right out with it, if he really is right for you and you want him back you will just have to make the first move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Think long and hard about this one - he deserves not to be jerked around by you simply because you're lonely. That's a really selfish thing to do.
If you find that you really, truly love this guy (which, by the way, means you'd be willing to do basically anything (except forsaking your own moral code) for him if he needed it), then tell him.
He may be over you, or he might be feeling exactly the same way, thinking he can't tell you he wants to try again because you're the one who made up your mind it was over.
But, like I said - be sure about this before you go back to him. If you ask him to get back together, you have to be willing to really give the relationship your all. And you should have an idea of what went wrong in the first place and a reason for believing that it's no longer a problem.
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