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female
age
30-35,
*oveatadistance
writes:I met a married man who is 30 years older than me and has a child the same age as me. He lives in a different city in a different state. After a long flight back together I can't stop thinking about him yet he feels nothing of the sort for me and hasn't replied my email except for the first one I sent him. I feel like my boyfriend doesn't matter anymore and no one matters except him. I'm thinking of ridiculous things I could do just to be friends. What should I do about this situation?
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reader, The Realist +, writes (28 August 2011):
 Your best bet is probably to do the hard thing and just let him be. I have no problem with age differences but thirty years is a bit much and he is married with a life together already. No matter what your age is it isn't right to get in the way of that. He will pass through your thoughts and eventually the feeling won't be so strong for him.
Maybe a older guy is what you want but if that is the case stict to a few years older not someone who could be your father.
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