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writes:hi im 18 and i am seeing an 21 year old guy who i really like and care for but the problem is he is married i tried leaving him before but always go back to him i dont expect him to leave her and im happy with him am i doing the wrong thing he also is beng the only guy i have ever had good sex with maybe thats the reaon i cant let go??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): Don't make a fool out of yourself. I loved a married man 8 months ago and now I am seven months pregnant. No matter how good the sex is, he will always go to his wife. He told me if I would have a abortion we would still be together. He was so charming, sweet, and gentle. I never saw it coming. (You know his evil side when he didn't get his way.) I have read a lot of internet stories were the public view woman who are with married men as whores and tramps. But we are all entitled to one mistake let this one be yours and get rid of him. You are gonna fall and not know how to get out. Don't say oh! That won't happen to me because, I never in my wildest dreams believed it would happen to me either. And I found out abortions aren't that easy. Good luck. On what ever decision you make, it's yours not anyone else's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Run, Run, Run away from this guy as fast as you can girl!
It will only lead to you getting hurt because if he'll do it with you then he'll do it to you. Besides, he is married and how would you handle it if he were your hubby.
Not being harsh cause I know most guys are smooth talkers but you have to cut him off and get away, after all I'm sure you have more respect for yourself and a married man is not worth losing that for.
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reader, cls1990  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 does marriage not mean anything anymore?!
you need to leave this guy, change your number, dont contact him, leave him to get on with his marriage & get yourself out with friends! Go out, enjoy yourself & meet new people, there are loads of guys out there for you to date - just stay away from the married ones!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 April 2009):
The reason he is the only guy you have had good sex with is probably because you are 18!!
Most teenage boys have no idea what they are doing with a woman.
Accept the fact that there are guys out there who are better than this one.
Plus keep thinking of his wife, and the fact that if he's cheating on her, he's probably cheating on you.
At the end of it all though, you just have to go cold turkey and cut him off.
If you are too weak to do that then you need to ask yourself why.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (24 April 2009):
 It sounds like you know what to do you just need a push. Like you said he's married. He's not leaving his wife meaning you'll never have a true relationship. It's also not fair to his wife. I can honestly tell you that just because hes the first man you have enjoyed doesn't mean he'll be the last. But now you have a better idea of what to look for. Continuing seeing him is only going to eat at your already guilty conscience. Even if he left his wife for you, you would always have that little voice wondering when it would be your turn to be left. I would break it off now and start dating. Find a single man who wants and can give you what you want great sex. I hope I have helped....
Miah
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