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writes:Can you love someone you don't see for ages?Me and my ex broke up when he moved away to live in another state.. I'm just wondering if it's possible to love someone you dont see? Is it alot easier to get over them? We still talk (he always iniates convo) but I mean one day he has to stop caring right?Absense makes the heart grow fonder OR is it out of sight out of mind?
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reader, cindy 15  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 its possible alright you dont need to see each other to love each other do you? love isnt a switch that you can easly turn on and off like tap water. your feelings might not got away but try and find someone else that is closer to you.hope everything works out 4 u
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): you can never forget someone you once loved even if you don't see them for 20 years.I met a gal once I loved after 20 years of parting and every cell in my body was craving for her just as before, my heart fluttered, my hands shaked and my legs felt so weak I thought I was gonna fall down. unfortunately the same reason which stopped us frm being together was still there so we parted again with alot of words of greetings and hopes and good wishes without even having the courage to exchange our phone numbers. If only we could have had one night together to get it out of our systems, it would have been so nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): It TOTALLY depends on the kind of people you are and what kind of relationship you had. Usually when a loved one moves away you only concentrate on the good things and how much you miss them - until you meet someone else. If he's initiating the conversation it seems he still wants that connection with you - he's probably lonely and is wanting something familiar in his new life. If you want a long distance relationship then go for it - they're great! You have someone on the phone telling you how wonderful you are and you never have to put up with their crap! downside is no hugs, no kisses... paranoia of meeting someone else etc.
Im still love a lot of my ex partners no matter where they are in the world.. love isn't something that is just turned off - but i think you're asking whether it's possible to be IN love with someone who has moved away and to that question I'd say not for very long. You will be in love with him until you are not - and by not seeing him you will probably find yourself just loving him for who he is rather than being IN love with him for how he makes you feel.
I hope that makes sense :)
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