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Can you have sex and still have an intact hymen?

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Question - (5 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *tarlightmuse29 writes:

I was wondering if it is possible to have sex, but not tear your hymen? I had sex with my ex boyfriend. He was my first, but I never bled as he entered me. Every time we had sex it would pinch and hurt as he entered me, but after a while it would go away and would feel pleasure. Does any one know what is going on? Is it possible that he didn't pop my cherry?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (5 March 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Of course it's possible to have sex without rupturing the hymen. It's called " compliant hymen " ( when the membrane is very elastic and yields without tearing ) and it's not even that rare. With time, after a few "assaults", the membrane will be in tatters and you won't feel the pinching sensation any more.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011):

It couldve already been broken through physical activity or if you finger yourself. Sometimes a woman's hymen can be broken before her first time.

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