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writes:Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again?We have known each other years, from school, but only spoke on line since. Then ended up sleeping together a couple of times recently. But then I said no more, as I am not oppose on one nighters, but don't want to be someones casual booty call as feelings can start happening.He said he is cool with that and respects it, and has invited me over during the day, and was a gent, didn't try it on.So far so good, but is it possible for men to just be friends, and even more so after you have slept together?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (19 July 2012):
 Yes, it's possible.... so put that detail in your mental catalogue of "interesting things to know" and get on with your life.... and enjoy the friendship of this guy....
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 July 2012):
 if you are both ok with it and on the same page I don't see why not...
to be honest if the sex has only been a few times i think it will be easier than if you had an ongoing FWB thing going...
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reader, Angel S +, writes (19 July 2012):
 Hey,
I think it all depends on the guy if i'm honest. Some like to think that you own you just because they've slept with you and if they clikc their fingers you'll come runnning back for more. Your guy however has shown that he can be decent about it and remain frieds whether he can keep this up or not is up to him really. I say stick with it for a while, do your 'friends only' thing and if he does seem to start something up again then nip it in the bud. As much as freinds with benefits goes on reguluary its not really a healthy setup because as you say feelings from someone begin to blossom. Good luck with it.
Xo xo
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