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Can tickling be sexual?

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Question - (17 June 2022) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2022)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

My BF Jacob is so fun to tease. I found out he is ticklish and his laugh is so sexy and cute. He says my fingernails are a secret weapon. He tells me to stop but I never do and he does not get mad after. His sides and his tummy are the worse. He will put his hands on top of his head when I tell him to or else. He also gets erections every time I tickle him. I love watching him flex his body trying not to squirm and making him have erections and I help him hide them when it is in public which is fun. My trick is to slide my hand under his shirt and slow tickle his tummy and he tries not to laugh and he looks at me like paniced and says why are you doing this to me lol. He gets all sweaty from trying to stay still and he gets an erection. I tell him good job afer a while and give him a break. So is tickling sexual or is it just Jacob? He tries to tickle me but i have more will power and he loses every time when i tickle back. It is fun because he is so much taller and he is athletic and can bench press me in the air but he is at my mercy. But seriously why is it so sexual to him? Or is it just because I am touching him at all and he wishes we would have sex so bad? I think he likes it or he would get mad at me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2022):

We are not having sex even if he wanted to do it. So I dont know how that got mentioned. I am just tickling him. I can't help it if he reacts that way. I have never even touched it. Why is he a "poor boy." I am just tickling him and I guess it turns him on. He is not complaining but if you think it is morally wrong or mean I guess I should think about what you are saying. Do you honestly think I am being mean?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2022):

BTW...if you have to ask such a question, it's proof you're too young. If you think it's sexual, don't go there. Not yet!

It also depends on what you're tickling! Don't tease boys to see their erections, that's inappropriate at your age! If you don't believe me, ask your father!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2022):

Sorry, we don't encourage sexual activity between individuals under the age of consent, even if they're the same age. If you didn't ask your parents; maybe it's because you know you're too young at 13!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2022):

Tut tut it is not legal for you to have sex at your age.

As for wanting to chat about your sexual fantasies and fetishes the best thing to do is get about thirty dollars and ring those sex chat lines for ten minutes when you feel the need to share it. The woman who listens and yaps to you will be bored to tears, ironing her husband's shirt while she pretends to be fascinated by it. Thinking that by the end of the day she might have earned enough from talking to people obsessed with odd sexual tastes to buy him a nice new shirt.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2022):

Tickling can be sexual , it's a fetish called "knismolagnia" and people with this fetish get aroused or even have orgasms from being tickled ,BUT - aw come on, the boy is your age , I guess, you put your hand under his shirt ,touch and caress his stomach ( this is sexual ) ...and you 'd want him *not* to have erections??Poor boy, at his age he could have a boner just from *thinking * about your hand touching his belly - and this even without having any fetish whatsoever.

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