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writes:Do you think that someone can really fall in love with a hooker?I have been doing this profession for over a year now and I have had few clients that I liked but this time I feel that I really have fallen in love with this guy, I can't stop thinking of him...and I think that he might like me too but in this situation is so hard to tell, and even if he likes me he probably thinks that all what I do is just an act or that it is all because of money.....absolutely don't know how to feel about it, do not see him often as he lives quite far away and comes over every few months but every time I see him it is getting harder for me to deal with this......help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he lives really far away and I saw him only four times, but last time when I saw him he told me that he really likes me and that this is a bad thing....I did not say anything cause I didn't have guts to say anything...which was stupid...and than was about to in the morning go he asked me if I wanted to stay with him till the next day ( another 24 hrs)but only if I wanted..so I did and we went out and spent all day out with some friends of his as well; he was so respectfull, was treating me like his girlfriend in front of everyone and was really looking after me...when we got back we had sex and it was the most amazing we ever had, we had such a great connection...we would not stop just kissing and holding hands...I know it sounds stupid...but it felt really special....he told me that he enjoys spending time with me and next day he asked me if I was sad that he was leaving ..I just laught (which now I regret :( ) but he told me he hopes I am ... it is so hard for me to say if I am seeing things right but I really feel he does like me ...and just don't know how to show him that I do care for him...and not his money....I don't want to do escorting for long..so leaving woulnot be a probem....
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): It can happen, and does.
But it can be difficult for a guy because he might never believe that you have feelings for him because he paid for your attentions the first time round.
Its one of the things that makes being an escort or a hooker difficult.
And if you do get into a relationship with him, you need to ask yourself, will you change profession? Because that's what will be on his mind.
Good luck hunny
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 It's been known to happen...you may want to say something and find out where he stands and whether he has any feelings for you, or else things will get even more complicated. If he does not reciprocate, it would be for the best if you declined to sleep with him in future as that would be very painful for you. If he does, please work out a long-term future and an alternate career, if neccessary. Men do fall in love with hookers, but often have difficulty staying.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Of course people can fall in love with hookers... particularly clients.
Pipe up next time you see him!
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