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writes: Losing my virginity to a mate/ex bf in a few days. Thing is, this is new to me and not to him, will he still enjoy it even if I'm not? I'm expecting the whole pain/bleeding thing that most women get first time so I doubt i'll enjoy it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): hi i think it is important to loose your virginity to some one you know well and love, not just any body if you are ready for it and love each other and it is the right decision you will enjoy it no atter how much pain you are in but if he doesnt love you he will enjoy it any how
hope it helps thanx billie xxxx
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reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (25 May 2006):
Please wait for someone you love like your soon to be new boyfriend. Wait for the one that will be there for you afterwards.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): please think about what you are planning , if you go ahead you will regret it , why give it away like this , wait till it means something more, you will always remember your first time let it be a good memory not a silly one that you will wish you could so forget ...x
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (24 May 2006):
 I'll answer your question in a moment; but first, why would you want to lose your virginity in such an indifferent and dispassionate way?
Think about it, you only get one First Time, and you (despite what you might think) will always remember it. I'd urge you not to do it this way, because you *will* regret it.
In answer to your question, yes, he'll be fine, even if you lie there like a wet sponge and solve quadratic equations in your head. Most guys can manage an orgasm like troopers.
Although first-time sex isn't always fantastic, that doesn't mean you're going to bleed or have pain, either, you know. I didn't; I'd characterise it more as discomfort for the first few minutes, but I got into it, and you may have a similar experience.
The point I'm trying to make is that you seem to be approaching this exercise as if virginity was some sort of albatross around your neck, something to get over and be rid of ASAP, like a cold! It's not, and once it's gone you don't get "do-overs", so why not rethink your plan?
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reader, ShortandSweet? +, writes (24 May 2006):
 Seems like your you're more worried about physical after-effects than what this union may mean. Do it with someone you really love. After all,it may not last but it's an exchange of emotions not a medical examination. Make it special, luv, please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): This might sound stupid, but why are u so desperate to lose your virginity that it should be with an ex-boyfriend?
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