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writes:I was "with" a guy but not actually dating him for almost 3 months while he got over his ex of 3 years. He was in love with her and I came to accept that he was going to need time to get over her. I didn't really realise it at the time since he was my first boyfriend but he treated me like crap. I always had to call him since he would only call me once sometimes twice a week if I didn't. He wouldn't tell my friends about me and when they tried to set him up with girls he would say he didn't know what he wanted. He stopped talking to me a month ago and I haven't seen him since mid-November. He's back with his ex and I don't know how to get over him. Any suggestions?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 Hi
Sounds like he subconciously used you as a crutch to get over his ex. That was very unfair of him. But i dont suppose he gave it much thought at the time and probably didnt mean any malice. Like he said to his friends he really didnt know what he wanted.
Things are stacked against it working with his ex, although small comfort to you i know.
Time is a great healer. Just be patient. Just dont have him crawling back when it goes t**ts with him and her again or you will end up feeling like your part of a game of tennis!
C xxxxx
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (23 January 2008):
go out, have fun, meet new people, date, keep yourself busy. that always seems to work for me.
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