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writes:okay, so I very lightly french kissed a girl that didn't give anyone oral sex before, but she kissed someone before me that did give oral to someone, this has been over a year ago, my doctor told me not to worry about having any curable std, but right now I'm just really worried about getting hiv, please someone reassure me that if I go get a test for hiv that it will come back negative..I could really use a licensed doctor's opinion..I'm really scared, what should I do??
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reader, Viajante  +, writes (8 October 2010):
They said it, just relax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): You need to do some reading on STD's... you're knowledge (or lack there of) could put you at risk, or could kill some great opportunities due to irrational fears.
On Itunes, go find "sex is fun" and download their podcasts. They have several on STD's. It's a great show, and all about sex education.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 October 2010):
 Even if she had HIV, you cannot get it from kissing. Unless you are both gushing blood into your mouths and drinking it, you can't get it from kissing. You can french kiss someone with HIV every day and won't get it. It cannot be transmitted through saliva, only through blood and sex fluids. The chances of getting it through oral sex are also very low, especially a guy performing it on a girl. The only way he could get it is if she had HIV and he also had cuts in her mouth and even then it would be unlikely. And the odds of HIV coming this far through all those people are totally absurd. Plus how do you even know any of these people have HIV? It's not exactly such a widespread epidemic that every other person has it and every person who breathes the same air as them will get it. HIV isn't like the flu, it's fairly difficult to get and fairly uncommon as far as STDs in north america go. Don't they teach this stuff in school anymore?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (7 October 2010):
 1) You aren't ready for any of this if you have such irrational fears. Slow down and wait until you are ready.
2) You don't have HIV. The chances of getting HIV through a kiss is extremely low, and that's through direct contact with someone who has HIV. Transmittal through oral sex is also quite low probability. You would know this if you did my next point.
3) Do some reading about HIV/AIDS and learn about this disease you fear so badly. Learn about transmission. Learn about safety measures you can take to avoid it. DO SOME RESEARCH!
4) Nobody here can tell you anything for sure. If you've talked to your doctor about this, you should believe what you were told. They are a medical professional and have access to your tests and what not. Nobody here has or wants that information.
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