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*iley92
writes:I've tried giving my boyfriend oral several times (he's the first guy i've done it for) and even though i've gotten better according to him, i can't make him come. Its hard at times because he's big and too thick for my mouth, we're opposite in size. I'm petite and he's built. By the time he gets really into the blowjob i get tired and so does my jaw and ive accidentally scratched him with my tooth... i felt so bad, but i've gotten better. I don't know if making him cum will be a problem for us or not, but so far it hasn't been happening and i caught him looking up on the internet "girlfriend can't make me cum" which made me feel even worse. We're not a sexual starved couple but i feel like making him cum would mean he really enjoyed himself. I wish i could finish the job for him. Does this happen for you too?I know granny style is lame but his size is honestly too big for my mouth so i have no choice but to cover my teeth or else i'm worried i'll hurt him :P i try to keep a hard tight grip most the time which he likes and it helps keep him in place so he doesn't go poking in the wrong places (like my teeth) and so i have more control. i suck but i dont think he liked it much. i can tell he likes deep throating which makes me gag, how can i substitute deep throating if i can? i use both hands sometimes but i always use a hand while i use my mouth and i use my tongue as often as i can. I don't know what else to do but to continue what i do and maybe eventually he'll be comfortable, its his first time doing it too.
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reader, mandee19  +, writes (15 October 2010):
Try giving him a hand job to start with and then finish him off with your mouth. This way he will be in to it before your jaw is tired. Also if you have a sensitive gag reflex, don't let him shoot a big load to the back of your throat. This happened to me the first time I gave a bj and it nearly made me throw up.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Instead of focusing so much on the penis, try exploring the testicles-they're sensitive and can give men a lot of pleasure. I read up on it and the scrotum (right between the two boys) can actually cause some men to orgasm if manipulated right. You can try sucking/licking that particular place when you're feeling a little tired. Another thing I found out is that if you're very careful and gentle, you can take a testicle (or both) into your mouth for added pleasure. Continue stroking his shaft while you do this. As for deep-throating...the trick is to hold your breath right? Explore! Find out what he likes and you can then find a technique that works. But if your sex life is otherwise satisfactory, don't worry about this so much. Not everyone can orgasm from just oral sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): it sounds like your both new to this and its all about experimenting to find what works for both of you. if hes looking up answers to questions like that on the internet you have to wonder why he doesnt just talk it over with you however he may be just as worried as you and think theres something wrong with him.you could try several things such as giving him a blow job until your jaw starts to ache and either tease him for a while( boys love it)by licking or sucking round the area until your jaw has some feeling back or yoyu could masterbate him to finish and then offer to clean him up with your tongue. if all else fails just accept it and deal with the fact that he enjoys the feeling and can "finish" off in otherways.PLEASE dont think yur doing anything wrong practice makes perfect your not expected to be a master at everything straight away just relax and go with the flow.but above all talk to him if your really worried you never know he might have some ideas x
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