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30-35,
*gmitch
writes:Hi there,Theres this guy I met the other night, he is so good looking, so funny and normally he would be somebody I would fall for completely. He's been messaging me a lot and I think he really likes me.But theres another guy. I used to be head over heals for him. He said to me that he really liked me aswell. But he said nothing could happen because we now work together. But I feel that now I've gotten to know him we have such a strong connection. Every time something bad happens to me he's always there and makes me feel so much better. He said to me yesterday that I'm the most beautiful guy he's met and really likes me and wants to get to know me more, but the thought keeps running through mu head that nothing will ever happen.I don't know what to do, this guy is usually perfect for me, but I can't ask him out because of this feelings for this other guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, LOSTasYOU  +, writes (11 September 2010):
 Well this is a REAL difficult situation. I believe you just gotta ask yourself, not only who you like but who makes you feel more comfortable? Who can you be yourself around? Although you might feel that you feel the same way for both, theres always that little something, that little sign that just hits you and lets you know whos right for you. You can even try THE LIST method. It may sound kinda silly but it might even help a bit. Just make a list of the good and bad of both. Of course remember that things take time. Maybe the guy isn't ready for something serious. Only time would tell. Just have patience. Maybe thats why your confused yourself. Since the guy said it might not work because you work together, you wanna give someone else a chance but you just cant let go of the first guy. Just think about whats best for you rite now. Wait for one guy or give someone else a chance, HOPE THIS HELPS!
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