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Bullies and more...

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Question - (4 December 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey there, so I figured I could use some advice with just everything going on recently. I'm just fed up with how things seem to have turned out. So firstly at the end of December last year (2012) I discovered I had weak veins in my legs this led to really bad pain in my spine and my legs... im still going under tests but this just brings me down. There is a huy who ive known for 7 almost 8 years now and weve always been good friends but hes dating one of my bestfriends and they both have ganged up on me, he will call me things like cripple and anorexic (which im not im just slim) but it has really hit home now with my dog of 10years having to have her leg removed... my dad used to be in the army and when he went to fight my dog would be the one I'd turn to... so she's special to me. But im just a ball of stress, mess and tears...... I've spoken to my mum about this and two of my bestest guy friends and they're appalled but I thought I would be good to get someone else's insight... thank you so much! I hope this works- Charlie x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2013):

bless you, small minded people tend to gang up on others in order to develop a bond with the other ganger upper (not real words I know :) ) to gain a 'mutual enemy' so to speak. They do this because they lack any real connection with the other and therefore try and force bonds by developing mutual enemies. Nevertheless, they can't think much of you, if you're their victim. Ditch them and find some people who truly value you & you'll feel much better :)

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