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writes:Last summer i was seeing this guy. We fell hard for each other but we broke up in September because our relationship just didn't feel right anymore. To make it easier for both of us we decided that we would just stay away from each other. But about a month ago we were at a party where we slept together. I just found out that I'm pregnant. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I do plan on keeping the babyAnd I have talked to the father and he does want to be involved and he wants us to get back together but there are reasons we broke up and I don't think getting back together just because I'm pregnant is a good thing.
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reader, Luverlee +, writes (19 January 2009):
Well one, are you keeping the baby? ((and no i don't mean the A word.. well i mean adoption.. the good A word))... and if you don't know then think about it...
Also if you are keeping it, you need to do yourself a favor and tell the father that you're having his child. Now think about if you want him in the childs life or not. He doesn't have to be around or support it ((if you don't want him to)) you can also ask him his opinion. It's the best thing for you and him.
And last you need to prepare yourself. Sit your friends and family members down with you and talk to them. Tell them you need their support and help ((if you need it)). Don't hide, thats important, because you really won't be able to hide it in a few months anyway lol...
Hope this helps and i wish you the best of luck!
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reader, raina182 +, writes (19 January 2009):
Speak to him. Don't be ashamed about it, it wasn't your fault.
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 You need to speak to him.
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