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writes:my girlfriend and i broke up because of her family interfearence, she told me, her best friend and another friend she was getting back together with me, her mother and daughter had a hissyfit and said they wont have anything to do with her if she did, so she told me she loves me but cant get back with me, she also asked me to wait a few years for her daughter to move out, now she drinks all the time and does what ever they ask, what bdo i do?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 If you could answer further, I'd appreciate it. My initial thought are, she needs to take her stand as being the parent.
Has she dated others before you? I asked my daughter once why she doesn't want me to date, she said "because you haven't made the best choices in the past." That happened to be before I began studying relationships, back before I could give advice to anyone, because I did have difficulties myself. If she'd had bad relationships in the past, I can see where she doesn't want mom to end up in the same situation.
I don't know what to say about her drinking all the time, other than she needs help. If you'd ever spent a bunch of time with someone who doesn't face reality and is always drunk you'd know this may not be the best relationship to be in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): if she really loves you she wouldn't let anyone or anything get between you guys. good luck
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