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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months and he asked me about my past with guys which wasnt so bad and he told me about his past girls which was really bad..the thing is that i dont resent him for his past but he resents me for mine which was nothing..so one night we went out to a party and he was drinking and he asked me about one of my ex bf..i didnt respond to him so he got mad..we went to talk in the car and he kept asking me but i didnt want to answer because i knew how he was going to react..so then he kept pushing me and wanting to choke me..he wouldnt let me out of my car..then he called me names and i got so mad that i hit him..but in the arm and it wasnt even a hard hit even though i know it was wrong..he got mad and slapped me..i love this man so much and i want to be with him but his anger issues are getting in the way..i need help please let me know what you think!!im soo confused in what to do..should i help him through his anger issued or leave him for good?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 August 2010):
 This one not only has anger issues but retroactive jealousy issues. It also sounds like you're not the first girl he hit. If he loves you he would never lay a hand on you. Plus, you've only been going out for 2 months that's way too soon to tell if it's love you don't even know him. He's had this problem for a long time and you can't help him change, he has to do it on his own. Chances are he will probably grow up to abuse more women and land in jail. My advice, get out of that relationship before he really hurts you. In fact, you can help him by turning him into the police for physically abusing you.
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