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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My live in boyfriend left me about 3 weeks ago. We have been together for four and a half years. He was out of work for about a month and we struggled with money. He said he left because I was being to hard on him about him being jobless. We were raising my 2 children together, 6 and 7 years old. He not only walked out on me, he walked out on them! He said that he loved us, but he just could not handle my negativity anymore. I love him so much, I am going crazy inside. What should I do? Do you think he is using excuses and is really seeing someone else? He has done that to me before. Please help me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): im so sorry to say this to you and this comes from a woman i think that you may have pushed him to one side with all your detrimental remarks. because he was out of work for a short space of time i think that you may have belittled his ego and made him feel inferior to you. maybe at the time he was the wage earner in the house and you undermind him by your steadfasteeness of always being there cooking cleaning doing the what he saw as meanial roles in the house hold and suddendly he is brought down to your level and maybe he has had enough. try and coax him back into the fold with a bit of t l c a bit of an ego boost and a bit of a power surge make him feel wanted not ostrosised make him feel important to the family he may not have a job now but until he didnt have a job you all thought he was important to the family
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