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writes: Ok. So i'm new to this whole thing. But - i have a problem and i'm hoping theres some people out there that are going through the same thing.So my new boyfriend and i started sleeping together last week. He's Black. and he is HUGE. I sometimes feel pain because he is so big. What do i do? I dont want to leave him - but i dont want to say anything cause i dont want to hurt his feelings. can anybody help - i really love this guy but its JUST TOO BIG! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): why dont you check out sex postions with men, that are too big, on google, i am sure you will find one somewhere lovemaking should not be painful should be enjoyed.. i found one its called http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/sex try this has a view sexual postions for having sex with men well endowned...good luck now
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 What's probably happening is that he's hitting your cervix and for a lot of women, that's a painful/uncomfortable experience. There's nothing to do but tell him. Say that you love being intimate with but because his penis is so big, it's hitting your cervix and makes the experience a little uncomfortable. He won't be hurt-for some reason, guys prefer being told they're too big than too small :p So, the best thing to do is for him not to go so deeply and be gentler. You can try being on top as that helps YOU control what's going on. I know you've heard this a lot already but here goes: the pull-out method doesn't protect from pregancy or STDs, condoms are your best friend when it comes to protection from both (the male condom being more effective than the female) and the birth control pill is only for birth control and menstrual cycle regulation. So, best of luck!
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