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writes:5 years in august. The two of us have been through it all. Apart from the silly arguments I still am attracted to him. But recently he hhas had very premiscuous behavior. Cell fone. Hiding, internet trafficking, he says I'm crazy and that I harass him. No arguiing, yeah I am invading privacy without a doubt. Our relationship has taken a hard turn. I am no angel but I vow my monogomy for him. My question is... what can I do to open communication up again? Wwhat r the signs to let go? Lonely shouldn't visit me like this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): We are lucky us women. We have a wonderful thing called intuition ... it nags us to listen to it. If in your heart of hearts you know what he is doing ... ask him point blank .. and see how you feel about it after. You already know the answer .. youre just not listening to yourself.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 June 2010):
 You ask "What are the signs to let go?" They're right in front of you with the internet and cell phone and infidelity. He's switched off from you.
The question you should really be asking yourself is "Why am I still attracted to him even though he's treating me like crap?" That's something you need to overcome in your life where your emotions cause you to be in situations that are really bad for you and mess up your life.
Loneliness is a practical joker. It convinces you that it will always be with you while it hides the truth, and the truth is: when you get rid of the toxic parasite of a boyfriend, you will brighten your future and make your life so much better than it is now.
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